Sunday, March 18, 2012

I Would But I Couldn't So I Can't♥



Year after day..I have been doing the same thing with repeatedly.. I have no idea what the  purpose is.. Maybe I was curse by someone *Slap me*.. I'm a  little down in this kind of life.. Sometime it let me turning to depressed temper..*My partner would be sober =D* Sometimes..I was argued with my partner for those deny things or misunderstanding..
If you were someone who like me.. Taste its.. =P Here are some tips how to manage arguments when in a relationship..

/Managing Arguments In A Relationship/
  1. Try To Remain Calm : Understand and hear the problem correctly. Don't raise your voice unnecessarily.
  2. To The Point : Discuss what is bothering you at present. Don't bring out old grudges and change the issue of the problem.
  3. Keep It Real : *I think this is more important to me* Deal with the issue on hand and not a problem that may happen.. Be realistic or you will be just frustrating one another..
  4. Avoid calling name : Character assignation should be avoided completely..
  5. Set A Time Limit :   Fights and arguments should have a time limit.. It is a temporary disharmony.. Don’t allow the ugliness of an argument to stretch on indefinitely.
  6. Kiss And Make Up : How an argument ends is crucial. Recognize when an olive branch is being extended to you..maybe in the form of joke or an apology..Accept it and get back together.. Never take the argument to bed and fret and fume over it all night..



      Arguments are common and so are misunderstandings which sometimes spark negativity in a harmonious relationship.. Please avoid it into your relationship.. *I hope so* Cheer up to everyone need to avoid the bull shit.=D

                       ♥I Will Never Ever Leave You As I Already Promised♥L.o.v.e.Y.o.u.M.c.s.R♥
                     





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      Sunday, March 18, 2012

      I Would But I Couldn't So I Can't♥



      Year after day..I have been doing the same thing with repeatedly.. I have no idea what the  purpose is.. Maybe I was curse by someone *Slap me*.. I'm a  little down in this kind of life.. Sometime it let me turning to depressed temper..*My partner would be sober =D* Sometimes..I was argued with my partner for those deny things or misunderstanding..
      If you were someone who like me.. Taste its.. =P Here are some tips how to manage arguments when in a relationship..

      /Managing Arguments In A Relationship/
      1. Try To Remain Calm : Understand and hear the problem correctly. Don't raise your voice unnecessarily.
      2. To The Point : Discuss what is bothering you at present. Don't bring out old grudges and change the issue of the problem.
      3. Keep It Real : *I think this is more important to me* Deal with the issue on hand and not a problem that may happen.. Be realistic or you will be just frustrating one another..
      4. Avoid calling name : Character assignation should be avoided completely..
      5. Set A Time Limit :   Fights and arguments should have a time limit.. It is a temporary disharmony.. Don’t allow the ugliness of an argument to stretch on indefinitely.
      6. Kiss And Make Up : How an argument ends is crucial. Recognize when an olive branch is being extended to you..maybe in the form of joke or an apology..Accept it and get back together.. Never take the argument to bed and fret and fume over it all night..



          Arguments are common and so are misunderstandings which sometimes spark negativity in a harmonious relationship.. Please avoid it into your relationship.. *I hope so* Cheer up to everyone need to avoid the bull shit.=D

                           ♥I Will Never Ever Leave You As I Already Promised♥L.o.v.e.Y.o.u.M.c.s.R♥