I Would But I Couldn't So I Can't♥
Year after day..I have been doing the same thing with repeatedly.. I have no idea what the purpose is.. Maybe I was curse by someone *Slap me*.. I'm a little down in this kind of life.. Sometime it let me turning to depressed temper..*My partner would be sober =D* Sometimes..I was argued with my partner for those deny things or misunderstanding..
If you were someone who like me.. Taste its.. =P Here are some tips how to manage arguments when in a relationship..
/Managing Arguments In A Relationship/
- Try To Remain Calm : Understand and hear the problem correctly. Don't raise your voice unnecessarily.
- To The Point : Discuss what is bothering you at present. Don't bring out old grudges and change the issue of the problem.
- Keep It Real : *I think this is more important to me* Deal with the issue on hand and not a problem
that may happen.. Be realistic or you will be just frustrating one another..
- Avoid calling name : Character assignation should be avoided
completely..
- Set A Time Limit : Fights and
arguments should have a time limit.. It is a temporary disharmony.. Don’t
allow the ugliness of an argument to stretch on indefinitely.
- Kiss And Make Up : How an argument
ends is crucial. Recognize when an olive branch is being extended to you..maybe
in the form of joke or an apology..Accept it and get back together.. Never take the argument to
bed and fret and fume over it all night..
I Would But I Couldn't So I Can't♥
Year after day..I have been doing the same thing with repeatedly.. I have no idea what the purpose is.. Maybe I was curse by someone *Slap me*.. I'm a little down in this kind of life.. Sometime it let me turning to depressed temper..*My partner would be sober =D* Sometimes..I was argued with my partner for those deny things or misunderstanding..
If you were someone who like me.. Taste its.. =P Here are some tips how to manage arguments when in a relationship..
/Managing Arguments In A Relationship/
- Try To Remain Calm : Understand and hear the problem correctly. Don't raise your voice unnecessarily.
- To The Point : Discuss what is bothering you at present. Don't bring out old grudges and change the issue of the problem.
- Keep It Real : *I think this is more important to me* Deal with the issue on hand and not a problem
that may happen.. Be realistic or you will be just frustrating one another..
- Avoid calling name : Character assignation should be avoided
completely..
- Set A Time Limit : Fights and
arguments should have a time limit.. It is a temporary disharmony.. Don’t
allow the ugliness of an argument to stretch on indefinitely.
- Kiss And Make Up : How an argument
ends is crucial. Recognize when an olive branch is being extended to you..maybe
in the form of joke or an apology..Accept it and get back together.. Never take the argument to
bed and fret and fume over it all night..