Right Or Wrong?♥

When we were kids at about the age we start to learn how to walk..scream..cry..jump.. Our parents starts to teach us basic manners like Hi or Bye or maybe giving goodbye flying kisses.. Usually at the age of 4..parents sends us off to kindergarten..our first step of growing up..

I remember whenever I am home from school.. Finished with homework's or anything.. My mum would always sit with me..And start teaching us the basic do's and don'ts..and of course rights and wrong..

Basic stuffs like..
~Don't talk to strangers..
~Never steal anyone's stuffs..not even food..
~Don't bully people..
And the list goes on..

Now let’s forget all these MUST do's and don’ts..Because I realized something that I doubt hardly anyone would..

Is smoking right or wrong?..
Obviously majority of people would say wrong..
I am sure you guys know that when there is a positive..there is a negative in it as well..
Nothing is perfect..

Back to that question..is smoking right or wrong?..
Positive : It calms people down..and De-stress them and make them able to think and concentrate..
Negative : It harms people health deeply and the smell is really bad for non smokers..

Is watching porn right or wrong?..
Positive : Satisfies people sexual needs..save someone from getting rape or turning into a rapist.. and of course..save your money instead of calling a prostitute and get STDS or AIDS..
Negative : It is stereotyped as an act of desperate ..horny people which also makes them 'cheap' and disgusting..

Is drinking alcohol right or wrong?..
Positive : Alcohol is a main drink for social gatherings..it brings people together.. It is also said beer reduces body heat..
Negative : When one drinks too much and get drunk..shit happens.. Or maybe turn into an alcoholic..

Is clubbing right or wrong?..
Positive : Fun for out-going people and helps people forget their worries and just enjoy themselves..
Negative : Because of dressing and their acts in clubs..whoever goes to club is stereotyped as 'cheap' and 'slut'..
Not careful you can be pick pocket anytime or maybe..waking up next to a stranger..

Is drug right or wrong?..
K la..this is a stupid question.. It's obviously wrong..
All it does is just makes people high and happy..sit like an idiot all by yourself and you can just laugh for no reason and if you can't control you turn into an addict and the world becomes a hell hole for you..

Is sex right or wrong?..
Positive : Scientifically proven that too little sex is bad for teenage attitudes.. And it's a stress release action..
* I am not saying teenage should have sex underage *
Negative : No condom = pregnancy..

And the list goes on and on and on..
So now are you thinking to yourself..
'just what the heck is really right or wrong?'..

I'll tell you the answer with a quote.. :)
There is nothing either good or bad..but thinking makes it so..

Everyone's thinking and points of views are always different.. There is no point in arguing who is right or wrong.. Whatever I wrote above..there maybe people who disagree to it but it doesn’t
matter.. I am seeing it from my point of view.. I am not right neither am I wrong.. But it’s just your thinking that makes it so.. ;)

Watch your thoughts..they become words..

Watch your words..they become actions..

Watch your actions..they become habits..

Watch your habits..they become character..

Watch your character..it becomes your destiny..
 
Changing your thinking..changes your life.. I did..that’s how I became who I am.. Wiser and happier.. Friends whom I haven’t talked to in a long time may say I’ve changed.. I didn’t..I just grew up..they should try that someday..

Sit back and relax..have some time to yourself..Think about what you really want.. who you wanna be and what’s good for you..We only got one life..best not to screw with it.. :)
After all there is no turning back to whatever we've done each sec..

Smile and love yourself today..
Yours truly..Nana

                ♥I Will Never Ever Leave You As I Already Promised♥L.o.v.e.Y.o.u.M.c.s.R♥